Topic: Heartbroken

[Haffina]

Someone I consider to be one of my best friends is no longer talking to me.
I had a bad day, I snapped at them. I 'stormed' off. I later apologised... 3 times. And not one word, not even an acknowledgement that they got the apology.
My heart is broken. I am angry at myself for snapping at them. I didnt realise it would get to them so bad. I dont want to hassle them. I just miss them like crazy.
A friendship destroyed because of careless words.
 

[Alundra]

I doubt you destroyed it. Maybe the friend has stuff going on in their life right now?


You're a good friend, I'm sure they'll come round .

[The Devilz Advocate]

I sometimes get like that... I forgive in like a day though. So just don't stress and I'm sure things will sort out

[Haffina]

I know you guys are trying to be positive... but that doesnt help the pain or hurt I feel. If they had something else going on and it wasnt because of me I know they would have said as much. The fact that they have ignored my attempts to touch base with them tells me it is because of me.
I feel like 

[Alundra]

Aww Haff

Did you tell them you're really upset?

* Alundra hugs Haff tightly

[Haffina]

Its a bit hard to tell someone how upset you are when they dont want to talk to you.

[Alundra]

True.

Kinda makes it hard .

[WikkidGrin]

Awwww Haff I know how that feels. I've lost a friend I cared very much for and now they refuse to speak to me and I have no idea what I did wrong.

The only thing I can say is that if they value your friendship at all they will come back.

I know it doesn't help you to feel better but I know when I've been hurt by someone's words and they apologise I sometimes still need a bit of time to deal with how much they hurt me, even tho I've accepted their apology. Altho I do usually say to them that I just need some time so at least they know I've forgiven them.